How to Keep Our Bearings in a World Losing Its Values?
By Lama Sangyay Tendzin
Hello everyone, I want to warmly welcome you to this gathering, which I hope will greatly aid you in defining yourselves amidst the changing world we are experiencing today.
At the outset, I think it’s wise to point out that although the chosen topic can easily invite extensive discussions, most of these tend to remain fruitless. Our ethical practice should guard us against this, as such discussions can often veer into subjective interpretations driven by a fear of change.
It would be more beneficial to focus on an analysis of objective facts that allows us to gain new knowledge, which can benefit us all. Although essentially similar, yet free from subjective judgments, I propose rephrasing the initial question as follows:
How might we redefine our existential need for being in order to preserve our individual values in a world that not only evolves constantly but also continuously shifts its points of reference?
In a world where value systems are increasingly influenced by technological advancements, globalization, and ever-evolving societal norms, maintaining one’s personal values indeed presents a challenge.
The ability to uphold one’s individual values within this fluctuating context requires both resilience and adaptability. It calls for a continuous discernment process that allows one to set one’s "inner compass" on principles capable of withstanding fleeting trends while remaining open to interactions with the external world.
A practical approach might be to regularly revisit and clarify one’s values. This introspective process helps discern which values are inalienable—rooted in one’s ethical and spiritual foundations—and which may evolve with new understandings or experiences.
In Buddhist practice, this aligns with the practice of "right view" (samyag-dṛṣṭi), where we are encouraged to continually examine our thoughts, actions, and intentions to ensure they remain aligned with intentions grounded in compassion and wisdom, regardless of external stimuli.
As we approach the topic of values, let us do so with a quality we all possess to some extent: the flexibility that allows us to view our values not as rigid and immovable historical monuments, but as living, dynamic principles.
By cultivating an attentive awareness of how external changes impact our inner world, we can respond to these transformations without abandoning our essential ethical and spiritual values.
Thus, maintaining individual values in a world where points of reference are shifting is not merely about resistance but rather about skillful engagement: rooting oneself in enduring principles while showing flexibility and openness to evolving contexts. Only this balance allows us to combine authenticity with relevance in a constantly changing world.
Although this discussion naturally references Buddhist practice—a perspective I endorse as a Buddhist monk—the question remains as to how we can reach a similar understanding for someone whose spiritual horizon is limited to the confines of rational thought.
Therefore, to establish a meaningful dialogue on the proposed theme, “Keeping Our Bearings in a World Losing Its Values,” I suggest a structured approach aimed at fostering a deeper understanding and engagement gradually.
1. **Introduction: Context and Urgency**
It is enriching to define what we mean by “bearings” and “values.” When we discuss apparent changes in values—whether cultural or social—in many societies, all inevitably lead to a sense of instability or moral ambiguity.
Observing the urgency with which these changes unfold, whether technological, social, or economic, they all seem to contribute to a perceived “loss” of values.
This is visibly manifested in the erosion of traditional structures, such as community ties, spiritual or religious practices, and family systems, which once provided a foundation for support and shared meaning.
2. **Understanding Values and Their Sources**
It is worth questioning which values are considered universal compared to those that are specific to a particular culture. For example, compassion, integrity, and respect are often cited as universal, while other values may be more contextual.
Reflecting on the sources of our own values—whether from spiritual teachings, family influences, valued educational experiences, or developed personal introspection—it’s crucial to distinguish how these sources remain relevant despite societal changes.
3. **Challenges of Preserving Values in Times of Change**
As we experience both types of realities—the relative truth based on emotional reactions and the ultimate truth grounded in facts—it is enlightening to observe how moral relativism and extreme individualism can undermine shared values.
Consider how media, particularly social networks, can spread fleeting trends that often overshadow deeper, more enduring values. Reflect on how consumerism and the desire for material gain test inner values, leading to a sense of disconnection from both others and oneself.
4. **Strategies to Maintain Our Bearings**
Embrace the concept of "inner anchors" that go beyond societal or external validations. Practices like mindfulness, introspection, and meditative traditions can provide stability.
Take responsibility for your values and actions, inspired by the ancient wisdom “Be the change you want to see in the world.” Introspection can enhance clarity in complex environments. "Nothing is as severe as it seems."
5. **Conclusion: Returning to Timeless Values**
Timeless wisdom that advocates compassion, respect, and the interdependence of all beings recognizes an ultimate reality: our interconnectedness. It is beneficial to transcend the fluctuations of modern trends and see how timeless values can guide us in all circumstances.
If continuing this dialogue and reflection is beneficial, no one will be better equipped to analyze and understand the topic we have just addressed than yourselves. I invite you to dedicate the merit of this meeting to the benefit of all beings.
